Time in Reef – FOOT

REEF-FOOT jan to set/2010:

Good, first we want to apologize, since much time it went on from our last post. We were closed for reform, but now we are of turn and are going to give a resumão to be able to bring the people near in the present, and anybody is without traveling …

Since we finish without going for the South Africa, for reasons of “we need to invest and to take care of our marriage”, we decide to open hand of the visa of 3 years that we had got and to go for the base of the JOCUM in Reef and to do the school FMA (Bases in Ministry of Advising) there. Since we arrive in January and the school only would begin in the May beginning, we resolve to invest in other areas of our life: Dani did a course of Decoration to Ambientação of Residences in the Senac and Ricardo de Design Gráfico (AutoCad) in the Prepara – both of 3 months. Good Muuuuuito!!!! Dani fez um curso de Decoração a Ambientação de Residências no Senac e Ricardo de Design Gráfico (AutoCad) no Prepara – ambos de 3 meses. Muuuuuito bom!!!!
But since our biggest focus was our relationship, we was behind a psychologist that it could help to find the light that was so in the bottom of the tunnel, which really we were not managing to see us …
We enter in the site of the CPPC (Body of Psychologists and Christian Psychiatrists) and find a psychologist in Reef. We write for him, counting a little on our history and situation and asking on the possibility to be (we wanted to know his line of thought, PREEEEEÇOOOOO, etc. …). He answered us prontamente and marked a point of meeting. They were only the people if to be looked and he began to speak: "Before vcs they spoke any thing, I only was wanting to say which God has been speaking be left vcs for me, from October of last year! I was in Africa when God told to me that a couple of missionaries would look for me … then, I am going to answer vcs with the biggest pleasure and I collect, for couple, R$ 250,00 A consultation; but for vcs, I am going to collect a much higher price: intercession!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Ele nos respondeu prontamente e marcou um ponto de encontro. Foi só a gente se olhar e ele começou a falar: “Antes de vcs falarem qualquer coisa, eu só queria dizer que Deus tem falado sobre vcs para mim, desde outubro do ano passado! Eu estava na África quando Deus me falou que um casal de missionários me procuraria… então, eu vou atender vcs com o maior prazer e eu cobro, para casal, R$ 250,00 A consulta; mas para vcs, eu vou cobrar um preço muito mais alto: intercessão!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
God is MARAVILHOSOOOOOO!!!!!! During all the time that we were in Reef (9 months), we did therapy and saw the quaaaaaanto God acted in our lives through that man! We are imensamente grateful for his life that so much it blessed us, it administered, embarrassed, built and affirmed (so much like family, how much counselors) … Thank you very much CM!!!! Durante todo o tempo que estivemos em Recife (9 meses), fizemos terapia e vimos o quaaaaaanto Deus agiu em nossas vidas através daquele homem! Somos imensamente gratos pela vida dele que tanto nos abençoou, ministrou, constrangeu, edificou e afirmou (tanto como família, quanto conselheiros)… Muito obrigado CM!
In the end of the counts, the FMA did not happen (it had not sufficient pupil) and we finish wrapping us with some ministries of the base. In the hour we do not understand anything; but then, with all that, we could see again the God's love on us, us giving the immense opportunity for focusing totally in our relation two, and for practicing everything that we had learned for, there yes, for beginning our life of married! We leave from Reef exactly same, however with a "small" difference detail: now we knew what and when to do. We were with several tools in the hand, it was enough to begin to use them! mas depois, com tudo isso, pudemos ver mais uma vez o amor de Deus sobre nós, nos dando a imensa oportunidade de focar totalmente na nossa relação dois, e praticar tudo aquilo que tínhamos aprendido para, aí sim, começar a nossa vida de casado! Saímos de Recife exatamente os mesmos, porém com um “pequeno” detalhe de diferença: agora sabíamos o que e quando fazer. Estávamos com várias ferramentas na mão, bastava começar a usá-las!

CURITIBA-PR nov/2010 to jan/2011 – SALVADOR-BA fev/2011 – GREEN BEACH-END sea and abr/2011

Since the school did not happen in Reef, we went to do the FMA in the south, in Curitiba. With 6 months of duration – 3 theoretical and practical months 3 – this school takes as a base the book “Walls of my Heart” of Dr. Bruce Thompson and gives us basic notions on the Advising. It was a good time where we could learn and grow in this area. We would like to thank to the teachers Jau and Thomas what they did great difference in our life in this time!; o) Foi um bom tempo onde pudemos aprender e crescer nessa área. Gostaríamos de agradecer aos professores Jau e Thomas que fizeram grande diferença na nossa vida nesse tempo! ;o)

We finish the theoretical period in January and next month, after a marvelous challenge, we gave beginning to the practical time. The travel for Savior was calm. Now, for Cape Verde … my Deeeeeus!!!! Besides the anxiety, tension, fear (more than the Dani, né mori??), we had an incredible experience of faith! We were between believing that there is no impossible one for God and to maintain our feet in the ground, if the miracle did not happen. Meeeu, the business was POWER!!! Agora, para Cabo Verde… meu Deeeeeus!!!! Além da ansiedade, tensão, medo (mais da Dani, né mori??), tivemos uma incrível experiência de fé! Estávamos entre acreditar que não há impossível para Deus e manter nossos pés no chão, caso o milagre não acontecesse…. Meeeu, o negócio foi POWER!!!
On the day of the travel, we saw the whole team boarding and the people BEING … were not easy, the only certainty that we had belonged of which God was in the control!!!!!!! The near flight for Cape Verde was from there a week … one more week of anxiety, tension, fear. we do not want to be hypocrites! DOES 2nd market SWIM, 3rd market SWIMS, 4th market SWIMS, 5th market SWIMS … imagines??? I (Dani) did not even know any more than I was claw!!!! Is it only from 6th market from which the money began to appear … and does he think that it was everything in a lump sum only??? NÃÃÃO!!! It went beeem to the pouquinhos … But for end, again God was a Loyal and 2nd market we were in that airplane! When we tread in African ground, our heart was not holding on of so much joy! I confess (Dani) that gave me muuuita wish to give a light kiss in the ground, but it was going to be something very "papal"; there only I restrained myself in going out running in the middle of the airport to take away a photo of the “International Airport of Beach” and I already took a call of the guardinha …!!!! O próximo voo para Cape Verde era dali uma semana… Mais uma semana de ansiedade, tensão, medo…. não queremos ser hipócritas! 2ª feira NADA, 3ª feira NADA, 4ª feira NADA, 5ª feira NADA… imagina??? Eu (Dani) nem sabia mais o que era unha!!!! Só a partir de 6ª feira é que o dinheiro começou a surgir… e pensa que foi tudo numa bolada só??? NÃÃÃO!!! Foi beeem aos pouquinhos… Mas por fim, mais uma vez Deus foi Fiel e 2ª feira estávamos naquele avião! Quando pisamos em solo africano, nosso coração não se aguentava de tanta alegria! Confesso (Dani) que me deu muuuita vontade de dar um beijinho no chão, mas ia ser algo muito “papal”; aí só me contive em sair correndo no meio do aeroporto para tirar uma foto do “Aeroporto Internacional de Praia” e já levei uma chamada do guardinha…
Amyway, was a marvelous time, where we know persons who marked us deeply!!!! Really we love!!!!! Nois is crazy in the bo!!!!!!! Realmente amamos!!!!! Nois é doido na bo!!!!!!

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CRATO-CE jun to set/2011 – CURITIBA-PR set to dez/2011

Since we fail already previously, we are doing one when it graduated in Advising by the University of the Nations – modular and integrant part of JOCUM.
After the realization of the FMA, we were for the Crato (a cidadezinha in the south extreme of the Ceará, well pertinho of Jujube of the North) in the direction of our near module: the EACV (School of Advising in Vicious Behaviors). Also with 6 months of duration, this school was established by the psychiatrist Dr. Darv Smith and his wife formed in Advising, Carol Smith. Happening for the 1st time in Brazil and being monitored by the founders themselves, we had the opportunity for enlarging our (limited) knowledge on the types of vices, his causes, emotional, physical and spiritual consequences, recuperation, etc. We were participating also of therapeutic groups and Were learning to lead them. Também com 6 meses de duração, essa escola foi fundada pelo psiquiatra Dr. Darv Smith e sua esposa, formada em Aconselhamento, Carol Smith. Acontecendo pela 1ª vez no Brasil e sendo monitorada pelos próprios fundadores, tivemos a oportunidade de ampliar nosso (limitado) conhecimento sobre os tipos de vícios, suas causas, conseqüências emocionais, físicas e espirituais, recuperação, etc. Estivemos também participando de grupos terapêuticos e aprendendo a liderá-los.
Very often, when we speak in vices, only we think about drugs, alcohol and cigaret; we forget what we can be falsified in work, sex, food, purchases, sleep, persons, religion … there are no limits for the world of the vices!
Is the vice sinned or is a disease? Can Jesus cure us of the vice? How to know if I am (a) addict (a)? What groups of Support are? These are some questions that we discuss in classroom and that made us realize that, there does not interest his age, type, social class, color, position … ALL OF WE ARE THE SAME Como saber se sou um(a) viciado(a)? O que são grupos de Apoio? Essas são algumas questões que discutimos em sala de aula e que nos fizeram perceber que, não interessa sua idade, gênero, classe social, cor, posição… TODOS NÓS SOMOS IGUAIS

EACV 2011

After 3 months in the heat of the Crato, we for the coldness of Curitiba carried out the practical time of the school. We work with a church, with the school of the JOCUM Childish in Risk and a House of Recuperation. We gave classrooms, participated of groups of support, accompanied individually a person of our choice and, mainly, we keep on looking to give steps in the direction of our recuperation process itself! Are we in recuperation, and you? Demos aulas, participamos de grupos de apoio, acompanhamos individualmente uma pessoa de nossa escolha e, principalmente, continuamos buscando dar passos rumo ao nosso próprio processo de recuperação! Nós estamos em recuperação, e você?

HE IS PAULO-SP dez/2011

That's right, one more finished stage! Now, we will begin the long one and (super) challenging journey for the near step of our bachelor's degree: our travel for (finally!) the South Africa! We are planning 20/03 go day, since the school of English begins well in the April beginning! Besides running behind visa, documentation and forms, do we want to use TO the UTMOST this time with our family and friends at last, there are 3 years out, né???? nossa viagem para (finalmente!) a África do Sul! Estamos planejando ir dia 20/03, pois a escola de inglês começa bem no início de abril! Além de correr atrás de visto, documentação e formulários, queremos aproveitar AO MÁXIMO esse tempo com a nossa família e amigos afinal, são 3 anos fora, né????
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